Saturday, April 30, 2011

GR8Y's 8th Birthday

It's hard for me to believe I have an eight year old son.  Eight?  Oh, that happened way too fast for my liking.  People told me how fast time would fly and I just simply didn't understand or perhaps I couldn't envision the future when the present was just so overwhelming as a new mom.  It seemed like I would have all the time I needed to navigate my new role as mother.  Actually, I wanted some of the stuff to fly by like the late night feedings and painful cries during his colic (his and mine!).  With no family living nearby to help me find my way into this new world of motherhood during the first few years, I'm afraid I did wish for it to pass.
But here we are.  I have this little person who radiates joy most of his waking hours.  He loves life.  He is loved by so many in our family of friends and relatives.  He cares deeply for animals, especially canines.  He is funny and compassionate towards others.  He likes to read and draw.  He only wants to wear shorts.  He sports a necklace or cuff bracelet almost every day.  He just started riding his bike in earnest.  He loves his dog Molly.
Over the last few months he's been growing emotionally and trying things on for size.  He wanted a Swiss Army knife for his 8th birthday, as he said I promised oh so long ago (did I?).  He's asked me to stop writing embarrassing notes on his waxed sandwich bags in his lunch.  Ouch.  He later came back and said I could write the notes, but there was a caveat - it had to be funny.  I could write meet me after school, but I had to add Bub to the end of the sentence. You know, to make it funny.  Funny to an eight year old.
One day he wants only to spend time with his father and just as that tugs at my heart strings, he's crying in my arms because he watched a Scooby Doo video that scared him and wants to sleep in my bed.  Yes, he's still a little boy.
I made him the requisite Kahlua Kake (not your average kiddie cake I assure you) because it is a Hecht family tradition.  He had one slice and was satisfied.  He's never been a big eater, and I think that's putting it mildly on my part, but he loved his cake with the make-do birthday candles recycled from last year's celebration.  I make this cake every year for Steve's birthday and, of course, Grady wants to be just like his father.  I can't blame him.
He asked for books this birthday and I just had to indulge him in such a simple request.  He's been coveting the Tintin series ever since he received a few old school cassettes of a few of the stories last Christmas.  His face lit up when he opened the books and, as you can see above, he dove right into reading them.  I also got him a The Sibley Field Guild to Birds and he immediately took it up into his tree.  Oh, that tree business has cracked me up this week.  Um, mom, can I do my chores after I sit in my tree for awhile?  How could I possibly say no to that?
We measure him every six months on his birthday and the half-way mark and can't believe how much he's grown since we moved in.
So while he's a bit hot and cold with me lately, I understand.  It's part of my job as his mom to help him get through these growth spurts, both emotionally and physically.  When he cries from growing pains in his legs, I'm the one he wants to rub his legs and sing him a song.  I'll happily do that as long as I need to.
Our neighbors release the llamas back into the pasture nearest our house every year on Grady's birthday.  This year, they released them on his birthday eve and he thought it was just the coolest.  He is still mesmerized by those creatures.
We rounded off the day with dinner and cake with Gigi.  Nothing like having your grandma come over and bestow gifts on you, as well as listen to every word you have to tell her about your special day.  He is the apple of her eye.
The cards and presents were opened in the wee hours of the morning as we had a little family breakfast birthday celebration before school.  This is a first, but I might just try and make it a yearly tradition.  Just the three of us chatting about who sent what in the mail, giving our special presents to him and watching his face light up each and every time.  He is so danged easy to please.
The knife was the last gift to be opened and he mentioned he didn't think he was going to get it at all.  Of course, his father talked to him about the safety issues and rules about not bringing it to school.  His mind was working fast and he was excited at all of the possibilities this knife would bring.  His first thought out loud was that he could whittle a walking stick just like Henry (Thoreau) did.  Seriously, he said that.  I'm not kidding.  Those Henry books he received a few years ago have made their mark.  Thanks Scott & Jill.

I'm sure Grady will be my teacher on his journey through this eighth year.  Perhaps there is a field guide for moms about that?  If so, I should definitely buy it, perch myself in a tree and watch him as he shows me how it's done.

Sunday, April 24, 2011

Spring Break :: Staycation + One Week

I loved spring break.  The fact that I had nine straight days with only one or two things on my calendar seemed like total decadence.  Our calendars are usually a colorful mess of obligations on a day-to-day basis.  Steve has assigned each of us a color on the Mac calendaring system and I'm blue, Grady is red, Steve is green and his Volunteer Fire Department commitments are grey.  Most weeks look like a kaleidoscope, so a week with hardly anything on the calendar was something to look forward to and enjoy.  We absolutely did.
We learned that our little Dolly (the blonde on the left) has crossbeak.  I noticed that she was acting a little funny and that the others were starting to peck her around the face and neck.  As you can see above, her little beak is out of whack and once a chick has any kind of weakness - the others move in and start pecking at her.  I find the natural order of this so fascinating.  Anyhow, I moved her to total isolation this week so that she could heal and perhaps rejoin the flock later in the week (if they would let her).  She's a social bird and did not like the fact that she had a one-room suite in the garage all to herself.  I'm happy to report that she is doing well and defending herself quite nicely among the flock.  As long as she continues to eat on her own, she should be just fine.
Books, audio books and DVD's from the library were everywhere this week.  Grady was a reading machine and we spent an entire day just reading books in bed, pausing to feed ourselves every so often and then climb back in bed to get lost in the written word.  I finished an amazing book called Every Last One by Anna Quindlen.  Best. Book. Ever.  We also spent an evening watching the 1971 classic Fiddler on the Roof - I had never seen it!  Down-time was in abundance and we enjoyed every last minute of it.
Of course, I had to rearrange something during this break and so this little corner lost a big table and G's desk and writing supplies now live there.  The guitars are here for now, but Steve has plans to build a few guitar holders to install on the wall and create a little wall art with the instruments.  G is loving his new little corner of our living room.
Meyer lemons are in season right now and Steve's colleague gave us about 50 of the sweet, juicy fruits.  We made many desserts and drinks over the course of spring break.  I'm nurturing my own Meyer lemon trees back to health and I hope they produce by next year, so that I can just walk out my front door and grab a few.
We spent the latter part of Tax Day attending the Friday Night's at the de Young Museum in San Francisco for our dear friend's featured exhibit of recycled fashions for Discarded to Divine.  You can read more about that wonderful project here.  We enjoyed the Olmec exhibit, as well as champagne and live flamenco dancing.  There was also an amazing children's craft/art area where they drew a person and then used fabric remnants to dress them up.  A little glue, scissors, paper and fabric scraps and...voila!  A mini Grady sporting pleather shorts, a gold sparkly belt and shiny platform shoes - definitely a self-portrait.
I've been trying to capture some of the little animal vignettes that pop up around here.  Sometimes they are quite elaborate.  This one above is living in his playhouse right now and all dogs are on deck and housed in a wooden barn acquired from friends.  He has names for ALL of the dogs and remembers who gave him each and every one.  Oh, the memory span of this child.
So I've been receiving little gifts and tokens on my bedside table.  This little collection made me smile.  A heart-shaped chocolate, a little garden fairy, a super special Pokemon card (special to G) and a little tear-shaped box with a beautiful piece of seaglass safely tucked inside.  I love his thoughtful placement and sweetness in giving me his most treasured items of the week.
Okay, so here's the part where I'm lame.  I'm all gung-ho when it's February and planning the garden, but it's spring and I cannot force myself to step out and weed my flower bed.  It's a hot mess of grasses right now.  I'm hoping that by shaming myself here publicly that it will prompt me to get off my butt and get to business.
Beautiful calendula grows like a weed and is my pleasant surprise as I tug out the invasive mint that surrounds it.  I love the shocking orange burst of color amidst the lush greenery.  I really appreciate the plants I don't have to do too much with.
My living room is pictured here, but just short of it is our entry way and the newly installed Flor carpet tiles.  The color is called Glitzy Brass, but it's more of a chartreuse green.  I'm planning on painting the walls and ceiling in this small area and hanging some kind of fantastical light fixture.  The hunt is on for that.
Our dog, Miss Molly Gray, celebrated her 7th birthday on April 14th.  This dog is the coolest dog on the planet and our boy loves her so much.  We adopted her last June and love having her as part of our family.  Happy Birthday Molly!
G wrapped up the winter session for his indoor soccer league.  He received a cool medal and a free scoop certificate to Screamin' Mimi's Ice Cream shop in Sebastopol.  This was his first time playing soccer and each week he gained a better understanding of the game, rules, strategy and sportsmanship.  He took many balls to the face when he was goalie and ran his little legs off most of the time.  He was recruited by a fellow teammates' dad to play on his outdoor team later this summer.  This was such a positive experience and great way to spend a Sunday afternoon during the quieter, rainy, winter months.
More flowers hiding amongst the tall grasses.  I planted these last Fall and then...totally forgot about them.  Nice to see they survived my neglect.
The garlic I planted last Fall is not quite ready, but I had to pull a bulb to find that out.  Still on the small side, but thriving in the bed where the rest of the lot is planted.  By far the easiest thing I've ever grown.
Grady has been testing the mother-son bond lately.  I'm trying to let him spread his little boy wings as he slowly moves away from me emotionally, but some days I just have to act like a mom and issue a punishment to fit the crime.  To that end, I just love issuing a typing assignment and taking away the requisite toy-du-joir that is most favorite in my little man's world.  Trust me, I am trying to use my power for good.
This little set-up was dinner last week.  Wild Flour Bakery bread, cheese, strawberries and glass of wine.  Seems like it could make a weekly appearance as a weeknight dinner for moi.
We have this wonderful place to buy fish in our small little town called the Sonoma Coast Fish Bank (and their website is a wealth of knowledge on the subject).  All of the fish is locally caught, sustainable, super fresh and this Rainbow Trout was just calling my name.  Grady helped his father prepare the fish with sliced Meyer lemons, salt & pepper.  The two of them in the kitchen makes me smile and the fact that Grady eats fish is a minor miracle, as he was very much an air-etarian until a few years ago - surviving mainly on peanut butter and nutella sandwiches, pirate booty and air the other 93% of the time.
Friday was Earth Day.  I love me an Earth Day.  We did quite a few things to mark the occasion (and try to do many of those things on a daily basis), but this picture is what I want to share.  Grady climbed up our pine tree, sat on this branch and did a bit of birdwatching.  He came down for a pencil, his nature journal and a bird almanac.  He climbed back up and sat up there for about an hour.  He spotted two doves and a barn owl and sketched them in his notebook.

When he woke up the next day he put on his "tree climbing pants" and gathered the same items.  Up he went.  He spotted black birds, a red-tailed hawk, a finch and a hummingbird.  He did his pencil drawings again and decided to color them in (with my mild prompting) and they are beautiful.  His love of climbing trees and art have collided and I could not be happier.
This little box of garden goodies was my attempt to honor Mother Earth and get them in the ground this weekend.  So far, they are still in the box - but my garden beds are closer to being ready to receive them.  Grady also selected a native California Buckeye tree for him and his father to plant somewhere on the property.  I think we'll do that on his birthday later this week.
Okay, this awesome treat is called a Dutch Baby pancake and it was so stinking easy to make and delicious to boot!  I love how it crawled up the side of my cast-iron dutch oven.  I used this recipe as my guide, but would definitely add a little vanilla next time (did I mention I'm making my own vanilla?  Oh, yeah.  So easy.  Bottle of vodka, slit open a vanilla bean and insert the whole thing into the bottle and place in a dark closet for six months.  That's it.  I'm approaching month four and it smells divine!).  A friend suggested a pinch of cardamom and I'll give that a whirl, too.  Grady wants this for his birthday breakfast later this week.  It fed three kids and three adults, with the addition of a fruit salad and crisp, yummy bacon on the side.  It may look a little wonky, but it was so very good.  A squeeze of lime (out of lemons finally) and a generous sprinkling of powdered sugar and it was good to go.
This little game of toss the raw chicken egg was really fun to watch.  The kids (and Steve) tossed them back and forth a few times...
This toss pictured above didn't end well for Grady (or the egg for that matter).  The kids thought it was a hoot that they were allowed to do this and it was a nice way to end our Easter celebration.  Broken egg yolks and children laughing.  Slam dunk, um, no pun intended?
So that's my spring break, plus a week, roundup.  Lots of growth and energy around here.  Happy Spring to all of you.

Monday, April 11, 2011

Monday :: Link Love List

saying...goodbye to G's long, golden locks for his bi-annual haircut

receiving...gobs of Meyer lemons from friends that quickly turned into tasty lemon bars and Thyme Lemonade (for the over 21 crowd using gin or vodka).

dining...at this quaint little bistro in a nearby town with friends

watching...G perform in his school spring musical production and reciting his lines perfectly

mildly bragging...about my son's full scholarship to the Point Reyes National Seashore Jr. Science Camp this August!  I'm just so proud and excited for him.

planning...a trip here when school gets out

buying...Grady's upcoming 8th birthday present here 

thinking...this would be the best gift for a new parent

digging...how Anthropologie chose to honor Earth Day this year

finishing...Major Pettigrew's Last Stand by Helen Simonson for book club

hunting...for springtime white wines under $10 a bottle here

signing...up for the 2011 Nike Women's Half Marathon Registration - hope I get selected!

scoring...a vintage Polaroid Land Camera

enjoying...a lovely beginning to Spring Break and our family staycation

In the Kitchen :: Doughnuts

It all started innocently enough, with an email showing up in my inbox from a friend forwarding me this recipe entitled Easy Doughnuts.  Funny thing was I, too, received this email and saved it for future doughnut-making adventures.  It seemed like the time to make them was upon me.
A quick coffee clutch (a small gaggle of girlfriends) was joined around my table and the doughnuts were ready to sample.  I actually made them from start-to-finish in about five minutes.  Tops.  See the actual recipe here.
Next time around I would make the dough in my breadmaker and roll more doughnut holes, but since this recipe called for a package of refrigerated biscuits like Pillsbury Grands - I went with it.  This really helped facilitate the five minute time limit.  I grabbed a shot glass and made holes in all eight biscuits.  Then I used my dutch oven on the stovetop and there was absolutely no oil splatter when I lowered the dough into the hot oil.  It's literally a minute on each side, so no time to really make a mess, and then I rolled them in sugar & cinnamon.  Ta-dah!  You're done.
I've recently learned a bit about Fika.  Fika is both a Swedish verb and noun that roughly means "to drink coffee," usually accompanied by something sweet.  Fika is a social institution in Sweden and essentially means taking a break.  I love it.  Perhaps the term coffee clutch is going to be retired and I will need to spread the Fika love around town.  Those Swedes really know how to live life.  I see another batch of doughnuts in my immediate future over a Fika with friends.  

Let me know if you try these and have your own Fika!

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Alameda Flea Market :: April

Spent this past Sunday at the Alameda Flea Market with a like-minded, vintage-loving friend.  What a lovely day to do so!  I wasn't really looking for anything in particular (but that's always besides the point, right?) and found myself perpetually drawn to this pretty hue of blue, as I perused the never-ending aisles for vintage goodness.
This Dodge van was the coolest of the cool and almost spells Dodgers.  Hmm.  That's strange.
I need more vintage luggage like I need a hole in my head, but it doesn't hurt to snap a photo of the set that got away.
Again, no place to put this globe, but I've always wanted a globe.  Childhood fantasy just waiting to be realized.
This worn baby carriage was home to a sad looking teddy bear.
These storage lockers were awesome.  I thought they would look great in my laundry room to hold cleaning supplies, brooms, mops and the like.
This blue was waiting for me at home.  Grady was fully decked out for the opening series with the L.A. Dodgers & San Francisco Giants.  He spent time with our octogenarian neighbors watching the opening game and learning the fine art of a little good-natured sports-related ribbing.
The sky must have inspired me today.  Spring has sprung around here and trees are in bloom all over Sonoma County.
All of these vintage treasures were a treat for the eyes.  This hat box was also beautifully lined on the inside, but I already have a few hat boxes.  None this cute though.

I walked away with a basket that can be used for holding my future bounty of apples to be plucked from the property where I work and a little beaker with blue numbers on it to hold a flower stem or two.  No photos!  Sorry.

What did you thrift this weekend?

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