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Saturday, March 21, 2015

Welcome, Sweet Dog

{This series was inspired by my son's sixth grade english assignment
 of writing for six minutes, without edits or overthinking it.  
I'll be posting daily quick writes for the month of March.}

Welcome, sweet dog.
We've waited patiently for you
and now that you're here
our house feels just right.

We've all needed your
unconditional love, butt wiggles
and playful boxing capabilities.
We just didn't know how much until now.

Our grief over losing Molly
is safely tucked away,
but not forgotten.
An ache we will revisit from time to time.

But you're here!
With energy!
With sweetness!
With us!

Today is going to be awesome.

Monday, December 17, 2012

Book Club, Baking & the Bazaar

Advent :: Day 11 :: Create
The daily advent is getting a bit stale with me, but the boy enjoys his daily early morning reveal.  We started the week by sitting around the table and doing a little painting and print making.  A really inspirational book called Drawing and Painting Imaginary Animals by Carla Sonheim set the tone for our painting. I stuck to blobs of watercolor and added black Micron pen lines to add eyes, noses and definition to my make-believe animals.  Grady drew an intricate dragon battle scene and painstakingly painted it in.  I absolutely love sitting around the table and listening to him tell me about his process, his creation and his intention with the piece he's working on.  I like when he tries to encourage me, too.
12:12 pm on 12.12.12
Day 12.12.12 left me scrambling for an Advent idea.  This is the lame one I came up with.  Yes, I had already planned on making a smoothie with the last of our hand-picked summer strawberries.  So it would seem a bit of an easy out?  Yes, but I needed the creative break because I would be wrapping, tagging, writing notes, tying ribbons and adorning boxes of Xmas cheer to pop in the mail today.
Dig It! Chorus + Best Friends
The 4th - 8th grade musical production of Dig It! was a roaring success.  Grady was in the chorus and the children did such a beautiful job singing their little hearts out and nailing their lines.  As expected, I teared up at the final song and just thoroughly enjoyed the music, the message and the feeling of being part of this small school community.
Advent :: Day 13
We had our first morning frost on the 13th.  It was a cold and brisk walk to let the chickens out this morning and I did my best to stay inside, drink tea and enjoy the solitude of our home.  
Exploding Heart Stamp carved by moi
Our much anticipated book club selection was Fifty Shades of Grey this month and was hosted by Katy K.  And while the book was horrible and dubbed as housewife porn (yes, indeed) - the food, hospitality and laughter was a nice antidote to the sub-par writing and unrealistic characters from this book.
The highlight of the week was the annual Tomales Elementary School Holiday Bazaar.  This little event consists of mostly donated items from parents & local community members and is sponsored by the PTA.  The children "shop" for up to 10 items at 50 cents a piece.  The dedicated wrappers wrap over 1,000 presents in approximately five hours.  The tragedy at Sandy Hook Elementary was occurring at the same time, unbeknownst to me.  In the festive bubble that we were in at the school gym, lots of good-hearted people helped over 120 kindergartners through fifth graders select previously loved items to bestow upon their loved ones.  Their spirit was pure and giving (and often funny!).  My heart ached as I slid into bed that night and read the news of the day.  

Heartbreaking.
Devastating.
Senseless.
The night belonged to the guys.  As the sun set and I hibernated in the back part of the house, my two guys spent a few hours mindlessly playing video games and enjoying each other's company.

Simple.
Sweet.
Bonding.
Advent :: Day 15
Saturday morning was a flurry of making.  The canine cookies have been a staple for the last four years and I just love gifting these to our doggie friends.  See our original packaging & recipe for 2010 here and 2011 here.  G creates the artwork and helps mix up the batter and I help keep the production line going and push us towards the finish line.
This year's packaging.  Molly is still his muse.
Isaiah, Grady (9.5 yrs), Isabella (11 yrs), Sophia (9 yrs) + Jocelyn
All dressed up in their party clothes & ready to see Santa
The Jenner Community Xmas party is a thing of beauty.  The Community Center is transformed into a winter wonderland with festive lights, two trees, xmas music, a huge buffet, mismatched china & place settings set out for approximately 90 people.  And while we don't live in Jenner, we are part of their extended community and treasure this invite every single year.
The children's table was the sweetest touch this year
This weekend found all of us a bit over-scheduled and hitting burnout mode.  Emotions were high with the boy and the floodgate of tears were opened Saturday and continued on throughout the weekend.

I had asked Grady to write his letter to Santa.  Writing is something we have to prod him to do.  I think he's a very imaginative storyteller, but he hates the actual putting pen to paper and writing it out.  As he attempted a few first drafts, he became sad and broke down sobbing.  He shared that he felt overwhelmed and climbed into my bed for a good, hard cry.

As I quietly wiped away his tears him and rubbed his back, I was reminded that he is teetering on a precipice between being a boy and a young man.  But he articulated his feelings so very well and for that I was grateful!  I feel overwhelmed, mom, and I don't know why.  Oh, I feel that way, too, and  don't often pause long enough to own it.  I push on and then it all wells up and comes out in other ways that I'm not so proud of.  I was elated & relieved that he could share these emotions and we chatted about what was important about this season and how we can give of ourselves and hope to make others happy in doing so.
After a short rest, he got out of bed and busted out the above persuasive letter to Santa.  I think he knows that the end is near with the Big Guy and this was part of his emotional outcry.  He knows that we are not getting him an iPod Touch or any more Lego sets.  I also know that this was one of the contributing factors to his emotional meltdown, but he sure did put all he had in this letter (with perfect penmanship and all!).
Mom, it feels awkward to sit on Santa's Lap.  Do I have to?
When he finally did get to see Santa, he politely declined the offer to sit on his lap.  He stood up and quietly asked for a camouflage t-shirt.  He then received a bag of goodies from the man in red and said thank you.

When I asked him why he didn't ask for the Lego set, he quietly said I don't think he gives that kind of stuff, mom.

It's hard watching him navigate this emotional roller coaster this season, but I know the growth and experience will help him as he grows a little taller and more independent and into the young man that I can't wait to get to know.

Friday, October 5, 2012

October :: Weather + Life

Rohnert Park Library is the library of choice these days.  It has a great children's literature section and I stocked up on lots of beautiful art books.  I think I was a librarian in a past life, as the thrill of entering a quiet library with my little guy next to me is just about one of my most favorite things to do.  I love how excited he is by his growing stack of new books.  He even wanted to hang out and do homework at one of the workstations after school.
The weather has been a bit schizophrenic lately.  I bundled up last week with scarves and closed-toe shoes, only to welcome a few days in the high 90's, tank top & flip flops.
I also have a big love of for the P.O.  Great Grandma Lavinia sent one of her special little packages to the boy this week.  Inside was a Grow Snake that you soak in water for 72-96 hours.  He was thrilled.
G is up to 320 books read for the year.  This week he was assigned to do a book report and he quickly dug into a The Last Olympian by Rick Riordan.  He had previously attempted this book, but was sidetracked.  He started it on Monday and was finished by Thursday.  This boy can read.
We have dabbled in the art studio, but haven't been inspired on that front.  I ordered a dozen blank kraft notebooks and we played around with screen printing ink and letterpress blocks.  They turned out cute and we will most likely do another batch for holiday gift giving.
The leaves are changing, the skies put on a show every day and autumn is most definitely here.
The boys helped paint signs for the upcoming parcel tax measure and Steve created a website for this measure.  We have immersed ourselves in community and our amazing small school.  It feels good.
What can I say about the above photos?  Grady scored this sweet Commander Fox ensemble at the local thrift store and bought it for a song.  He wore it most of the weekend and could not stop looking at himself in the mirror.  I normally do not go for this kind of store-bought costume but, as always, made an exception because it was second hand.  He is thrilled and that makes me thrilled, too.
We painted a few signs to inspire our powerful friends!
Our amazing goddaughter, Isabella (age 10!) rode in the GranFondo last weekend with her mother.  She completed the 67 mile Medio Route in 6.5 hours and met the Olympic Gold Medalist, Kristin Armstrong.  She was inspired and inspiring!  Grady wants to do the 30 mile Piccolo Route next year with Steve.  I hope they do it.
Fog rolling out & Spectacled Owl drawing for Linda Mahley's 70th birthday
I am still in awe of the beauty of where we live.  The skies have been so many things lately - cloudy, blue and low hanging fog moving in and out.  The bird life around here has been so active.  The hawks, owls, finches, hummingbirds, egrets & kites are busy preparing for winter.  I love when Grady grabs one of his bird reference books and draws his favorite bird of the day.
Weekend fun with Johnny, Doran Beach & pre-dinner nibbles at S&J's
We watched our friends' dog, Johnnie, again last weekend and G was kind of over it.  Initially, he had been quite smitten, but not so much this time.

It was so hot here on Sunday that we called a friend in Bodega Bay and met her at the pool.  We need to soak up as much sunshine & pool time as we can because these type of days are numbered.
The Cindy Sherman exhibit at SF MOMA did not disappoint.  She is a trip and I'm glad I read a book about her work and process before seeing the show.  All of her photos are untitled and she is the model, make-up artist, stylist & photographer.  She is a one-woman show and some of her work was confusing, gross & interesting.
Homemade placecards + One gutted salmon
Steve scored us a half of a fresh salmon this week.  It was so delicious.  We had Maria & Michael over for an impromptu dinner this week and we enjoyed the salmon and utilized my expanding stash of gifted heirloom tomatoes.

The guys made salmon cakes a few nights later and G ate two and tried wasabi & horseradish dipping sauces.  I know this seems trivial, but it was a major food victory for Steve and myself.  Grady is growing up and changing so much every week.

With the shift in the season, we also saw a shift in our son.  There were many hurt feelings and tears.  Steve talked Grady down from the 9-year old emotional cliff that he was on and I think we are all the better for it.  Sometimes you just need a good cry and to be heard, right?  I know I do!  He's such an amazing little man and I'm so proud to be his mama.

Tuesday, December 20, 2011

Make :: Canine Cookies

We have a lot of canine friends.  Lots.  Every year my dog-loving boy designs new packaging and I bake up this quick and easy recipe for our four-legged friends to enjoy during this holiday season.

Canine Cookies:

2 c. wheat flour
1/4 c. cornmeal
1/2 c. parmesan cheese
1 egg
1 c. water
Mix all. Knead a bit. Roll out and cut w/ small cookie cutter. 
Bake at 350 degrees for about 40 min (flip halfway through). 
When done, turn oven off and leave pan(s) in to dry out. 


Our sweet dog Molly Gray passed away earlier this year, but she is still a muse for Grady's artwork.  I love how much he still loves her.

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

hump day nuggets :: under the influence

hump day nuggets :: little bits of the season in photos and words about the last week

Words are escaping me for this post, as I've procrastinated most of the day and found countless other things to do to occupy my time.  But my mom arrives today and I have many, many things to do before her plane lands.  Nuggets will be short and sweet.

nuggets.
:: Art acquisition.  All of the above images are from the home of a talented graphic designer in Tomales.  She oozes creativity.  The owl art on the right is now the property of little 'ole me.  I love it and not just because it's gold & shiny.  Those button eyes and real tree branch sealed the deal.  Not sure where it will find its final resting place at our house, but she can float around for awhile and figure out where she wants to land when the time is right.
:: Dia de los Muertos.  We created an altar for Molly this year.  Tears were shed and we reminisced about how lucky we were to have her in our lives, even if just for a little while.  We also talked about loved ones who are now gone and what they were like when they were alive.  I love this tradition.  It's such a nice and dignified way to remember those not of this earth any longer.  I think that's the point.
:: Art Show.  We had the privilege to attend a private art show at the home of Jeff King and his lovely wife, Kristina.  The above painting is an example of his work and his use of primary colors and flirty models!  Jeff sent Grady home with some artist grade pencils and made his day.
:: Styling.  This little man picked out a few new hats from Enduring Comforts in Freestone. I haven't met a hat that doesn't look good on this kid.
:: Old Fashioned.  We sat down for some good old fashioned family fun the other night and played a game of Scrabble with the boy.  It's only his second time playing the game, but he's really taking to it.  He started off the game with a newly acquired word "cob".  Steve has been reading the E.B. White novel The Trumpet of the Swan to him for the past few weeks.  Did you know a cob was the name for a male swan?  I did not, but I do now.
:: Ice.  I made good on a promise to take the boy ice skating on Sunday.  There were a lot of rules and signage at the ice arena, but my boy was too busy hanging on to the rails for dear life to get into any trouble.  He skated for close to three hours, slowly increasing his time around the rink and gaining confidence.  He loved when they turned down the lights and blasted the music.  He ended the day with the hokey pokey and I was reminded that this really is what it's all about.
:: Schizophrenic Weather.  We had quite a bit of rain over the weekend and today looked like this over in Bodega Bay.  There is a definite shift in the season and flip-flops are slowly taking a backseat to socks and shoes & my sweater collection is making more appearances.
:: Maintenance.  This time of year is the best time to mulch and put the garden to bed for the winter.  I usually completely skip this step and regret it come spring.  Not this year.  With the help of the husband and his trusty wheelbarrow, we put straw down on a few of the beds and mulched every single tree on our property.

Ear tag, pregnant spider, red leaves & lone fallen leaf
:: Intention vs. Attention.  I've been trying to have more intention with my days and pay more attention to the natural world.  The camera helps me look for those opportunities, to document all the beauty that surrounds me on a daily basis.  It also gives me the nudge I need when trying to find words to write about what I capture.  The image fuels the writing for me, but it's still a challenge.
 :: Art Studio.  Progress is being made within the walls of this funky, pink outbuilding.  More photos once we complete the painting, electrical and all that jazz.
Sunday morning at the table
:: Inspiration.  I really love the fact that Grady can find inspiration just about anywhere.  He can just sit down and bust out a drawing whenever the mood strikes him.  He has total confidence and is influenced by whatever it is he's reading (see above photo) or learning about at that very moment.  This is why I think it's so important to encourage little ones to experiment with art and expose them to museums, artists, good books, the natural world and original ideas.  Less screen time, coupled with blank paper and some pencils is all you really need to tap into the artist within.  I firmly believe that.

I also think it's equally important to surround them with positive people and adults or mentors that encourage creativity and celebrate their ideas, not squash them.  We had a teacher this week decline a few of Grady's art entries for the school paper before she even saw them.  He was crestfallen, but I encouraged him to submit them anyway and figured if she didn't select his work that it would be a good learning opportunity.  He was a bit embarrassed and just wanted to satisfy her, so he said he would would go home and draw something like a turkey or a xmas tree, instead of the drawings he had originally selected.  That didn't sit well with me.

The above interaction immediately brought forth a vivid memory from the last week when I was asking Grady some questions for his artist bio.

When I asked him about who his early art influences were, thinking he would name Charley Harper or Jackson Pollock, he instead mentioned his first and favorite teacher, Stacy.  She is a force of creativity & kindness, coupled with compassion & an incredible DIY attitude.  She introduced the children to artists like Calder, Cornell, Basquiat and created curriculum around those artists.  Age was never a factor with her, art and the beautiful world around that tiny red schoolhouse was for everyone to indulge in and appreciate.  The children thrived under her guidance and dabbled in painting, block printing, poetry & graffiti.  They left with a firm knowledge of the seasons, plants, animals, insects and the cycle of life.

We were so lucky that he was able to spend four full years with her as she guided him through nature, books and making lots and lots of art during his preschool days.  As newbie parents, she taught us a lot, too and we are forever grateful.

And so this reminded me that one teacher has left her mark and he is the kid he is today, largely due to her influences, love and encouragement in his first few years on the planet.  She is a special, special lady and the best teacher he's ever had.

She won't be able to attend his art show this week, as her father is ill, but she will be there in spirit and perhaps always with him as he matures as an artist.  Thank you, Stacy.
:: Whatever.  Grady's first solo art show is happening in a few days.  When we went to see the space and figure out how and where we were going to hang his artwork, he confided in me that he was both nervous and thrilled.  He then went on to elaborate and tell me thrilled was one of his vocabulary words for the week, so he knew exactly what it meant.

I'm thrilled, too.

Happy hump day.

Sunday, May 22, 2011

R.I.P. Molly Gray

Last April our friends let us borrow their dog for the weekend.  It was a test-run for all of us.  They were moving to New York City and just couldn't see Molly in an apartment all day long.  We previously owned a sweet boxer that passed away when Grady was about a year old and this just felt like it was meant to be.

Our son has been obsessed with canines since as long as I can remember, but he had a hard time with the real deal.  Stuffed animals were no problem and he quickly amassed hundreds, naming each and every one and remembering where they came from (friends, family, his own money, etc.).  Plastic figurines were his medium of choice when creating a world of dogs on our living room floor for years and years (and he still does this).  He has two shelves dedicated to books about dogs, treasured Dog Fancy magazines, and his dog encyclopedias have pages upon pages that are dog-earred (no pun intended...).  This boy loves himself a dog.
We decided Molly would join our family and happily welcomed her at the end of the school year last June.  She brought an energy to our home that had been missing.  We had a faithful companion for our son and he was no longer afraid of dogs or, should I say, he was not afraid of his own dog, the new and oh so lovely, Miss Molly Gray.
She loved to shake her hind like she was dancing to a BeyoncĂ© song whenever anyone came to call at our house.  She was so excited when we came home and loved to chase a frisbee (and then proceed to devour it until we had to throw it away).  She made a few escapes from our property over the last year, but safely returned when she was done exploring the open pastures behind our house.
She was often dressed up in Grady's baby blanket and paraded around as Super Dog.  Yes, she most certainly was a super dog.  Grady marked her birthday on his calendar, April 14th, and she turned seven years old last month.
And while she could be found lounging on the deck most of her days, she never denied our little boy when he wanted to use her as a pillow.
She feigned slight disinterest when the new chicks joined us a few months ago, but she kept a close eye on them.  She never once chased our hens or the flock of turkeys that sauntered through our property.  She didn't have time for that, as she was usually busy sunbathing.
She loved to get in the backseat of my car and put her head out the window on our short trips to the post office or to pick up her master from school.
Last week was a hard one for us.  Molly wasn't her usual doggie self and when the vet came to the house to check her out last weekend we hoped for the best.  Within a day or two we knew that our dog was gravely ill.  She was diagnosed with lymphoma.  She couldn't eat or drink due to the growth under her tongue.  The decision was made and we prepared our dog-loving son for the worst.  He had been shooting a documentary about Molly while she was ill.  It is some of the saddest footage I have ever seen.  We said our goodbyes, cried a whole lot, planned a funeral and felt an emptiness in our house that I had yet to experience since we've lived here.

The next day we buried her near a newly planted California Buckeye tree in the middle of our property, put flowers on her grave and reminisced about all of the wonderful times we had with her in the short time she was with our family.  She was such a gift and we are so grateful that Karen, Terence and their two kids shared her with our family.

Rest in peace Miss Molly Gray.  We will never forget you.

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